Inviting new LOVE and the ability to forgive

The beginning of a new romantic relationship can have a highly catalytic effect to enliven, enchant, enhance, rejuvenate and invigorate your life and those around you.

Falling in Love feels often like stepping into a whole new parallel world where you experience a sense of joy, unity and oneness and filter everything through higher consciousness. It feels as if the veil has been lifted and something within you and around you has magically changed.
The world is brighter and lighter and you forget about your worries and burdens for a moment.

The beauty of new love has the potential open you up to a deeper level of divine love and tap into higher dimensions, an altered reality full of magic, pleasure, ecstatic moments of synchronicity, delightfulness and bliss.

Everything is possible when you start a new relationship.

However, if you begin the relationship from a lower emotional state such as neediness, emotional states of fear, insecurity or judgemental attitude, those patterns will be most likely enhanced so that you have the opportunity to become more aware of them and to do the necessary inner work. And then of course there is also a possibility to move to an even higher frequency with your newly chosen partner if both of you embody already the state of compassion, inner peace, inner contentment, a sense wholeness and LOVE.

The more connected and aligned you are to your True Self when you start a new relationship the higher you can rise together.
From the perspective of the parallel reality concept, you will not go in resonance with toxic relationships once you ascend to a higher dimension. Yes, this world has many different frequencies but you can become invisible to someone who is negatively polarised if you vibrate yourself at the frequency of unconditional love and keep your heart space pure and clean.

Embrace all Parts of You and Love Yourself Unconditionally

If you are already connected to your higher purpose and have done your inner work the chances are significantly reduced that you will fall into the trap of buying into false illusions when it comes to intimate relationships.

When we know who we truly are we radiate light and truth out to the entire creation.

A suitable partner will make an impact on your life and you will assist each other to realise your higher potential.
A suitable partner will touch you in some way, shape or form positively and assist you to transform patterns that are not helpful.
A suitable partner will make a very deep impact on the evolution of your consciousness, even if you won’t stay together for a long time.

Make the best out of the time while you are in this relationship so that you don’t have any regrets afterwards since there are no guarantees for the duration of any relationship. In other words, enjoy every moment of it but be detached from the outcome. Unreasonable expectations about the outcome will always lead to disappointment and frustration.

If this is a pattern that you would like to clear I do offer 1:1 Distant Healing and Holistic Counselling session.

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The first step to healing is awareness and taking responsibility that our expectations might have been unreasonable or we have insisted on a partial outcome prematurely. Each situation has a cause and an effect. Look deeper into what the original cause of the disappointment is if you experience ongoing disappointment in relationships.

Step into the flow and shift the disappointment paradigm now!

If you let go of expectations, stop worrying about the how and allow the way to unfold in a manner it is meant to unfold the outcome might be even better than you could have imagined. You never know what gifts the universe has in store for you that are beyond your current level of perception.

On the other hand, be also willing to try different creative ways and most of all to the inner work to align with the desired relatioship if this something that you truly want and don’t give up prematurely because you have labelled the circumstances or a specific incident as disappointing for example. You might need to simply transform a few patterns, amp up your self love and self esteem, re-connect to who you truly are and increase your faith frequency until everything works exactly the way how you have imagined it or even better. Or until you have mastered the ability to tranform any undesirable manifestations into gold and to be unatached to the outcome while residing in a higher state of consciossness.

Respect, value and treasure all relationships with those who make a significant positive impact on your life.

And as a rule of thumb remember that a new romantic relationship will pave the way for growth, transformation and evolution and can even reset your entire life completely, giving it new meaning and direction.
Even short-term relationships can offer a wealth of learning opportunities and leave a lasting impact on your life.

“I believe forgiveness is the best form of love in any relationship. It takes a strong person to say they’re sorry and an even stronger person to forgive.” – Yolanda Hadid

The perfect conditions to align with a romantic partner consist of

Loving yourself, unconditionally and being connected to your True Self (the of who you truly are is innate lovable\).
Clarity of heart
Emotional and spiritual maturity and stability
Unshakable, deep-rooted confidence and self-belief in the goodness of life
Resilienz to conquer challenges and tests that will for sure manifest sooner or later

Check-list if you are ready to invite new LOVE into your life

Are feeling emotionally stable and secure within yourself (if you are at war with yourself you won’t be happy with someone else)
Are you happy without a relationship and do you know that you will be ok, no matter what
Are you emotionally detached from past relationships?
Can you take care of yourself emotionally are seeking a relationship to fill in something that is missing or even hurting
Have you healed and transformed the patterns from previous relationships that have been the main cause that the relationship did not work out

Increasing our ability to love and dissolving the qualities such pride, jealosy, shame, blame is very, very important. Our ability to feel Love, to give and receive love will increase if we master the ability to forgive and let got. Forgiving is an art worth mastering. It is a superpower that you can develop.

“There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.” – Bryant H. McGill

Soooo much goodness is waiting for you Create space in heart to receive it and then. Open your heart wide to let it in

“If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you’ll never get it done.” -Bruce Lee

Erika (Shri Lakshmi) is a fully qualified Holistic Life Coach and Counsellor, Hypnotherapist, Soul Transformation Therapist and Soul Plan Practitioner. She assists heart centered, conscious, aware individuls to transform all of their relationships and create a life full of creativity, purpose fulfilment and empowerment.

Erika – Shri Lakshmi will meet you where you are on your journey and support you to let go and release everything which is preventing you from moving forward and reaching the next level of your infinite potential.

She is grateful and honoured to have worked with many private clients all around the globe. Her approach is heart centred and intuitive and she combines practical and spiritual tools to get to the heart the matter.

If you would love to transform some of the undesired patterns and connect with your higher purpose a Soul Plan Reading is a great start.