Healing Family Patterns

What I am feeling now energetically is that April will not be an easy month. Besides the global events, many family patterns will need to be resolved and tons of releasing and forgiveness work will be required.

Many of us did not have the privilege to grow up in a loving, creative, positive and supportive home. If you can relate to it rest assured that you are not alone.

We all have various needs as children that need to be met and we are dependent in the early years on our parents and caregivers.

Those who had a very positive early childhood experience become often highly empowered individuals and develop healthy self-esteem and healthy self-confidence.

However when those needs have not been met or the child has been neglected or even abused it will most likely develop dysfunctional coping strategies, addictions or a defensive behaviour.

At some point, many realize however that they can’t blame their parents all their lives and this is usually the first step to healing. As adults, we can take care of ourselves and create our inner sacred family. We can turn to the universal father and mother for support and protection.

Your inner family consists of your inner father, your inner mother and inner child.

It’s very easy to recognize if there is no balance between these three archetypical energies. If your wounded child is running the show, for example, it is very likely that nothing in your life is working out and that there is much drama, inconsistency and pain. The inner child is meant to be creative and playful but it is not meant to run your life for you.

If the energy of your inner father is not balanced it is very likely that you struggle to provide for your material needs. To stand up for what is right, to take courageous action or to commit to something.

If the energy of your inner mother is not balanced you might struggle to take care of your inner child now as an adult, to nourish and nurture it and to love it unconditionally. You might also find it difficult to develop compassion for those who have wronged you and harbour resentment.

To understand how these dynamics have been created simply look at the structure of your biological family or the family you have been raised in.

Did your father show up?
Did he provide for the family?
Did your mother cherish and love your dad for being an amazing father or did she complain that whatever he did was not good enough?
Did your mother have to take on the role of your father?
Did your inner child feel safe and heard?
Did your mother take care of you when you felt sad or sick?
Did your mother show up for your emotional needs?
Were you allowed to be creative and playful as a child or did you have to take much responsibility at a very young age?

You will probably receive many aha moments by simply answering those questions. However, sometimes we can’t to the healing work alone and we are also not supposed to do everything alone.

To master the physical reality successfully we need to consider the full spectrum of existence (physical, emotional, mental & energetic/spiritual).

Therefore, we need to bring solutions from not only the mental levels but also the spiritual, emotional body memory and sometimes even ancestral level to address the core origin.

One part of our karma stems from our past lives and the other part from our lineage which we have inherited. Both are mixed together and it is not easy to distinguish which experiences are related to your individual karma and which are related to your lineage karma. The ancestral karma manifests often as dysfunctional or destructive family relationships and you might feel that you are stuck with a particularly challenging individual and that there is nothing you can do about it.

If you want to free up this stagnant energy which keeps you re-experiencing the same patterns you might benefit from the following package:

Creating a sacred family and inner safety from within – healing the inner child

Simply send an email to [email protected] and describe briefly where you are currently at in your life and where you would like to be. We can also schedule a chat via Skype if you prefer to talk to me personally. 

In case you are new to energy healing here is an explanation what remote Healing or distant healing is all about. 

The purpose of the distant healing sessions is that they should serve as a “jumping off point” to your own empowerment, awareness and responsibility. All lasting change has to come from within. When the lesson why certain patterns show up, again and again, is not learned and understood any type of healing will be temporary. 

When I work on a one on one basis with private clients I do always combine distant healing with coaching, counselling & assignments.

Energy medicine is a gentle yet powerful holistic approach to restoring your balance and wellbeing. Safe, fun, empowering and relaxing, energy healing sessions result in subtle but heartfelt shifts in the energetic communication of our bodies that can lead to profound improvements in all areas of our life.

Remote healing is a technique of channelling cosmic energy. The life force energy can be projected infinitely and therefore the distance does not matter.

A healer doesn’t heal. He is simply a conduit and holds space until the recipient is ready to activate his or her own healing abilities. The receiver needs to have an open mind and heart and be ready for healing. Healing happens from within and the healer acts as a facilitator.

The true “healer” is your own innate wholeness and inner wisdom

About Erika
Erika is a natural empath, a multi-passionate, multi-talented, multi-faceted holistic counsellor, life purpose coach, soul transformation therapist & distant healing practitioner.
She has also trained in Hypnotherapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT).
In her earlier career, she trained as a Beauty Therapist in Germany and worked several years in different Spa Hotels in the idyllic Black Forest (Germany). Erika also holds a degree in Business Administration and worked across a range of various roles and industries across the UK, Germany and Europe.
Erika will meet you where you are on your journey and support you to let go and release everything which is preventing you from moving forward and reaching the next level of your infinite potential. Your current self will often come up with many objections and may think you are not ready or capable of stepping up and playing a different or bigger game. That’s where Erika can assist you to recognize your own blind spots and move beyond your limitations. 
She is grateful and honoured to have worked with many private clients all around the globe. Her approach is heart centred and intuitive. Besides offering a wide range of digital instant download products she is working mainly online across different time zones via Skype and Zoom

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